So ignoring the rambeling above. This Author is right on track as a Transsexual myself, i wonder why do people feel they are entitled to know what is in my pants? Why unless they have a strong interest in sleeping with me would they want to know. My standing as in my chosen gender i assure you is not defined by the current construction of my genitals. The fact that i have battled dysphoria, self loathing, I have risked romantic and familial relationships to be who i am, I have poured money into my body, suffered untold pain and suffering, and battled work place discrimination should have a larger effect on how i am seen then what is hidden beneath layers of denim and cotton.