More Wisdom Than Years
By Margaret Wright [ Fri Jun 29 2012 4:51 PM ]
Sometimes journalism is difficult because the sources aren't forthcoming or polished speakers, requiring extra effort to tease compelling morsels out of interview material. This week’s cover story was difficult for the opposite reason: Every single person I contacted was articulate, knowledgable, insightful and well-spoken. Their statements were thought-provoking and their stories inspiring. Lissa, a member of the Transgender Resource Center's youth group was no exception, though what she shared with me didn't make it into the print edition.
“Like most transgender people, I've known that I was trans for a really long time,” she told me.
In 8th grade, after confessing in confidence to one of her best friends that she was trans, he outed her to the entire school. Coming out to her mother wasn't any easier.
“I was really suicidal for a time, and my mom walked in on what was my second attempt. My first was when I was little, but I chickened out, thankfully.” Lissa said her mother still struggles to accept who she really is, but “she's of the mindset that it's better to have another daughter than a dead son. It's not accepting, but it's at least tolerant.”
Lissa's journey through adolescence has been eased somewhat by a doctor's prescription for testosterone blockers, an active Gay-Straight Alliance group at school and a supportive group of friends. She's also found an outlet on YouTube where she posts videos aimed at other young people struggling to reconcile their gender identity.
When I told Lissa that she and other youth group members seemed much so much more mature than their age, she theorized that it comes with the territory of their experiences.
“You're making very mature decisions about your life. You grow up really fast, and you grow up hiding because from a very young age you know something's different and you're going to be hated for it.”
Welcome back to the De Anza
By Jessica Cassyle Carr [ Tue Jun 5 2012 3:28 PM ]
For the feature in the May 30 issue, I explored the adaptive reuse of a city-owned Route 66 motel in Upper Nob Hill. Read about why it’s a landmark, and how it’s being preserved here: The comeback of the De Anza Motor Lodge. Ty Bannerman supplemented the piece by writing about El Vado, another city-owned motel further down Route 66.
Request your absentee ballot today
By Marisa Demarco [ Wed May 30 2012 9:00 AM ]
If you’re planning to vote absentee, the county clerk recommends you request your application by tomorrow, May 31. You can print an application at bernco.gov/clerk. You'll need to mail or hand-deliver the application within 48 hours of signing and dating it.
Or call the county clerk at 243-VOTE (8683) and provide the following info:
• Your name, as stated on your voter registration card
• Your full address where you’re registered to vote
• Your date of birth or voter registration number
• The address you want your ballot mailed to (if it’s different than the address where you’re registered to vote)
The deadline to turn in the completed application is Friday, June 1, at 7 p.m. You can-hand deliver it to the Clerk’s Office (sixth floor of One Civic Plaza NW) on Election Day if you forget to mail it out.
Don’t know much about the candidates? Read our Primary Election Guide
Summer Guide 2012: High times in New Mexico
By Elizabeth W. Hughes [ Wed May 16 2012 4:01 PM ]
Everybody knows it’s cooler in the mountains, so get out and explore them already. You don't need climbing gear or a Sherpa to scale tall peaks—just a thirst for adventure and, perhaps, a beer or two. Here are a few of my picks for an elevated summer.
Eric Williams ericwphoto.com
You say it’s your Earth Day?
By Margaret Wright [ Tue Apr 24 2012 5:27 PM ]
The Earth Day Network reports that 1 billion people marked the eco-holiday on April 22. But with consciousness-raising taking place on such a massive scale, it’s easy to overlook the everyday people who fight to keep our corner of the planet clean and healthy. For them, eco-activism is not a once-yearly event.
For the eco warriors profiled in this week’s feature, the work is hard, the hours long and unpaid. It’s about attending meetings, learning how to speak up in public, keeping track of paperwork, forging alliances with neighbors. It involves concerted, long-term effort in the face of what often looks like an uphill battle.
Taco party tomorrow at El Pinto!
By Anita Taco [ Tue Apr 17 2012 9:00 AM ]
Al Hurricane and ¡Ask a Mexican! columnist Gustavo Arellano will perform mañana at the beautiful North Valley spot. This week, the Alibi’s food critic talks taco shop with Arellano, who’s written a book about how the humble food has overtaken the U.S.
Buy your tickets to the event in advance—and for half price!—at alibi.com/tacousa.
Photo contest slideshow
By Sam Adams [ Tue Apr 3 2012 3:54 PM ]
In this week’s feature we unveiled the the winners of the Alibi’s ninth annual Photo Contest. But there were a bunch of great shots that didn’t make it to print. The above slideshow includes nearly 300 submissions that were added to our Flickr pool. Have any favorites that didn’t get published? Comment below and let us know.
Tonight! Outdoor cinema at the Banff Mountain Film Festival
By Laura Marrich [ Tue Mar 20 2012 4:19 PM ]
The world-touring film fest makes a pit stop at the KiMo Theatre at 7 p.m. Its fluid and beautifully shot collection of short films features mountain culture, outdoor sports and environmental subjects—including Chasing Water, previewed in this week’s feature. Bonus: $10 to $12 tickets benefit the New Mexico Wilderness Alliance and the Mountain Fund.
Eric Williams ericwphoto.com
Drinking in Bernalillo
By Laura Marrich [ Tue Mar 13 2012 3:55 PM ]
Does that idea depress you? If you’re at Silva’s Saloon—the nearly century-old Bernalillo bar that’s passed through three generations of one family—you could wind up as happy as a lubricated clam. This week’s feature sifts through layers of the beloved dive bar’s history, patrons and tchotchkes. Oh, and did we mention the place is for sale—lock, stock and barrel?
Photo by The Brooks Studio
100-plus years of everything N.M.
Archival website unearths thousands of photos and historical documents
By Sam Adams [ Sat Jan 14 2012 10:00 AM ]
In celebration of the centennial, we at the Alibi put together a photo essay to point you in the direction of a great online resource. Celebrating New Mexico Statehood is the online brainchild of UNM Center for Southwest Research Director Mike Kelly, and includes more than 50,000 historical photos from about a dozen different museums and institutions. Read all about it here.
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