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 V.19 No.36 | September 9 - 15, 2010 

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Don’t Be a Dou ... Never Mind

Dear Alibi ,

The Alibi presents itself as a publication for both women and men. So I'm wondering how an adjective like "douchey" (which is a put-down based on anti-female sentiment) is acceptable in a movie review. But there it is in Scott Pilgrim vs. The World [Aug. 19-25] by Devin D. O’Leary. I'm sure you decry the violence against women across the world and locally. Are you not able to see the connection between casual put-downs of women in what you print and the treatment of women? Please, get a clue.

Penny Mainz

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    Film Editor’s Response: I wasn’t using the word to casually put down women, I was using it to say that the character of Scott Pilgrim is rather clueless and selfish in his treatment of women. Or as the female-run website fangirltastic.com puts it, “Scott Pilgrim is, quite frankly, a bit of a douche.” (The word, it should be noted, is used three times in the original comic.) Honestly, I’m not quite sure how the French word for “shower” inspires violence against women; but, hey, maybe I’m wrong here. Since this letter directly addresses readers, maybe we should be asking them. Please tell us, Alibi readers. The word “douche”: offensive to the female gender or a funny term for jerky jerks?

    Public Comments (12)
    • in which je douche ma bouche  [ Wed Sep 8 2010 7:29 PM ]

      Devin, I'm a fan of epithets of all stripes, be they debatably sexist, overtly sexist, or just plain ol' scatological, so I'm not decrying your use of "douchey." Douche all night, douchey douchetard, douche in a box, douche with a fox, and douche so with my blessing. But your response to Ms Mainz is reductive and your deliberate obtuseness totally irritating. "It's just French for 'shower' derp de derp!" Come on, dude, "douche" has a meaning in English, you are 100% aware of this, and for you to pretend otherwise is just totally gay. What??!?!?! WHAT?!?!! It means "happy"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • It's the D word.  [ Wed Sep 8 2010 8:28 PM ]

      Used by some, denied to others. Dr. Laura is welcome to pipe in.

    • Hey dickhead  [ Wed Sep 8 2010 9:20 PM ]

      Oh wait. That must be derogatory towards males. I better stop saying it if I want to insult in a conscious manner.

    • Douche  [ Fri Sep 10 2010 3:35 PM ]

      Offensive? No. A source of annoyance due to its overuse? Yes. Can we please just move on to vaginal cream-based insults?

    • burn  [ Fri Sep 10 2010 6:36 PM ]

      "I'm rubber, you're Gyne-Lotrimin; whatever you say bounces off me and sticks to a vagina."

    • Happy Shower  [ Fri Sep 10 2010 10:22 PM ]

      "You're being such a massive tube of Monistat (miconazole) right now."

    • A sensible alternative  [ Mon Sep 13 2010 11:39 AM ]

      Colostomy Bag.

      Example: Dude, stop being a colostomy bag.

      Can be shortened to C-Bag.

      Is actually more insulting than Douche. Implies you are full of shit and need to be emptied once a day.

      word.

    • speaking of C-Bags  [ Mon Sep 13 2010 11:49 AM ]

      I was playing pictionary once (it was actually Cranium, the drawing portion) with my mother-in-law and that was one of her guesses. "Colostomy Bag!" she shouted in excitement.

      Seriously? The creators for Cranium were sitting around trying to think of things players could draw and they decided on colostomy bag? That would have been so awesome.

    • Heh  [ Mon Sep 13 2010 2:45 PM ]

      "That guy's popped collar makes him look like such a tube of Vagisil Satin Anti-Itch Cream."

    • Hmmm.  [ Mon Sep 13 2010 4:17 PM ]

      All of this talk really makes me wonder: Is there a kind, gentle, inoffensive and absolutely politically correct way of insulting someone? ... And if there is, what's the fucking point?

      --Devin

    • If I'd been drinking milk at the time  [ Mon Sep 13 2010 7:26 PM ]

      this would've sent it straight out my nose.

      "I'm rubber, you're Gyne-Lotrimin; whatever you say bounces off me and sticks to a vagina."

      So, how about this: "You know what you are? Nose milk!"

    • Douches don't even represent ladies!  [ Tue Sep 14 2010 2:35 PM ]

      To me, "douche" has the opposite connotation of scary femme-hating. Catchy comeback, sure, but what is a douche literally? Something useless, annoying, possibly harmful to women (or at least their sensitive bits.) Reclaim! As a pretty strident feminist, I had to question my use of "dick" since I used to riled about the old "c-word", but remove all sexual identification and you got a nice casual zinger. And, as with this post, uptight old-schoolers who latch on to the wrong blow to the cause will miss the hilarity of exploring nasty for the fuck of it descriptors. Sometimes, douche is just the right word. Why the cock not?

     

    Abolish the Death Penalty

    Dear Alibi,

    Online, I read about Troy Davis, who is on death row in Georgia for murder. A federal judge rejected his petition on Aug. 24. Even though there is no physical evidence and the evidence collected relies on witnesses that made controversial statements, Troy Davis is back on roll for execution.

    In my opinion, the sheer fact that there is no physical evidence should result in a judgment that can be revoked. Nevertheless Troy Davis is on death row. I can’t believe it!

    I am troubled by the thought that this country executes people even when there is doubt of their guilt. Once dead, we cannot go back and revoke our judgment. The death penalty makes it impossible to reconsider. I think the death penalty is not acceptable for a human society. I would feel better if every state of the United States would finally accept that death penalty is not ethical. Troy Davis’s case is not the first one where judges ruled erroneous. This should not happen ever again in this country.

    Max Zither

    Public Comments (1)
    • Abolish the death penalty  [ Tue Sep 14 2010 3:31 PM ]

      The death penalty is completely unethical even if there were not a shred of doubt that the defendant was guilty.

      And if your facts are correct the sentencing of Troy Davis is indeed a total outrage.

     

    Damnit Indeed

    Dear Alibi,

    Nice write [Re: Performance Review, “Damnit Mamet,” Sept. 2-8]. It's a brave move when a man comes out and writes of his begrudging acceptance of a live theater production, though methinks if Mamet hadn't written the screenplay for The Untouchables or had the castapalooza perform his work in Glengarry Glen Ross, you'd be hating as if he were a crafter of musical theater.

    Only the truly crazy could so dead-on identify it in another's performance. Kudos.

    scottdepinto

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