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Rough Sex for Nice Folks

Lover and a Fighter

This Monday, May 22, grab your black (leather) belt, $20 and your sweetheart and head over to Self Serve to learn about Rough Sex for Nice Folks beginning at 7:30pm. For those with lovers who like it a little more rough than they do, that can lead to uncomfortable situations—“You want me to do what?”—but Reid Mihalko will be there to discuss the best sex positions, proper body positioning and ergonomics for harder, stronger, longer sex, the difference between “thuddy” and “stingy,” (and why you should care), why and how wrestling can be a turn-on, hair-pulling 101, spanking basics made easy, how to bite (and how not to!), how to move your partner’s body around the bed with more ease and more. (Megan Reneau)

Monday May 22, 2017

112 Morningside Dr NE
Albuquerque, NM 87108

Phone: 265-5815
Website: Click to Visit






Self Serve

Phone: 505-265-5815
Website: Click to Visit

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Reid Mihalko discusses and gives demonstrations on how to safely be a bad ass in bed.

If you’re a lover, not a fighter, but you or your lover like it a little rough, let America’s favorite sex geek (and double black belt), Reid Mihalko of, show you how you can safely be a bad ass in bed. From wresting to rough sex to advanced ergonomic techniques, join us for this humorous and informative workshop (with live demos!) on how to unleash your inner Bruce Lee of the bedroom.

In this class for people of all genders, we’ll cover: 


• Rough sex for nice guys, gals, and folks of all genders and orientations!


• The best sex positions, proper body positioning and ergonomics for harder, stronger, longer sex


• The difference between “thuddy” and “stingy,” and why you should care!


• Why and how wrestling can be a turn-on


• Hair-pulling 101


• Spanking basics made easy


• How to bite (and how not to!)


• How to move your partner’s body around the bed with more ease

And much more!

 No matter your experience level, orientation, relationship status, this class is going to be educational, fun, and give you some delicious bedroom kung-fu. Sit and watch as Reid demonstrates how easy it is to be a black belt at sex! We’ll even have plenty of room for your questions! Join us! Bring friends! Bring a note book!

ABOUT REID: Reid Mihalko of helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence and greater health in their relationships and sex lives, no matter what their self-expression of those happen to be.

Reid has appeared on Oprah’s Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Dr. Phil’s The Doctors on CBS, Bravo’s Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, People, Details, Marie Claire, The National Enquirer, The Washington Post, on VH1’s Scott Baio is 45 and Single, Showtime’s Penn & Teller’s Bulls**t!, Canada’s The Sex Files and SexTV, and the short-lived Life & Style, on NPR, Sirius’ Maxim Radio, Playboy Radio and Cosmo Radio, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.

To date, Reid’s workshops and lectures have been attended by close to 40,000 men and women. Reid has been a featured speaker and keynote at dozens of conferences on relationships and sexuality and is a sought-after presenter and teacher at colleges and sex positive organizations across the country. Reid has also been a writer, producer and behind the scenes consultant on a number of films and television projects about sex and relationships

Follow Reid twittering as @ReidAboutSex. Like and subscribe to his Facebook page,!