Thursday Aug 23, 2018
Phone: 505 265 5815
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A discussion-focused workshop on negotiation and limit setting, how and when to work through fear to express vulnerability and examine the parameters of safety as well as how thin and versatile those parameters can be.
Rules are meant to be learned, followed, obeyed—and broken? YES—once you have thoroughly learned those rules. Settle in for a rousing discussion-focused workshop on the tenets of negotiation and limit setting; defining irresponsibility; and how and when to work through fear to express vulnerability. Examine the parameters of “safe”—as well as how thin and versatile those parameters can be. You’ve done the 101. And another 101. You’ve played. You’ve had dynamics. You’ve grown. Now, come talk about how, when, where, and if to break the rules.
Sera Miles is CEO of PEP, est. 1990, provider of BDSM/ fetish conversation. Her sex work career has included domination and switch live sessions; starring in fetish videos from Strict Women, Pacific Force, and Kelly Payne; voicing the female leads in the porn computer games Bonetown and Bonecraft; and offering taboo-free phone conversation. Sera founded New Mexico FetLifers and directed the non-profit social group for its six vibrant years, during which the organization produced the conference "Evolution of the Revolution,” and she co-founded New Mexico's Sex Workers Outreach Project chapter. She’s presented at DomConLA, Beat Me in St Louis, KinkLincs in Seattle, and Behind Closed Doors in Tucson, as well as at many groups and universities across the Southwest. In 2016, the Sexual Assault Nurse Examiners of New Mexico invited Sera to speak about kink and consent at their annual conference. Currently, Sera serves as the BDSM expert adviser to New Mexico’s Strangulation Public Health Task Force. Most recently, the United Court of the Sandias bestowed upon Sera the Lifetime Title “Inspiration of the Sandias.” Sera identifies as a demisexual Leather D-type, in addition to the identities of owner, activist, editor, type-A personality, sex worker, and Leo Dragon.