Buckle Up: Pegging and Strap-On Play for the Adventurous with Reid Mihalko

Thursday Aug 15, 2019

Self Serve

112 Morningside Dr NE
Albuquerque, NM 87108
US

Phone: 265-5815
Website: Click to Visit

Cost:

$20

Ages:

18+

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Get a PhD in strap-on play and create great experiences that leave you and your lovers feeling satisfied, confident and glowing with appreciation.

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If you…

Are curious about strap-on play and pegging (anal penetration on a man via a strap-on harness and dildo) but have never tried it…

 

Enjoy exploring the “taboos” in The Lifestyle…

 

Are looking for a few advanced techniques…

 

Think strap-on blowjobs and handjobs might be “your thang”…

 

Want to help a loved one who’s not sure if pegging or strap-on play is for them, but could use some empowering, shame-free tips… 

 

Want to leave your loved ones stammering, “h-h-How did you do THAT?!”Let sex and relationship educator (and veteran pegg’ster) Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com guide you in getting your PhD in strap-on play so YOU can create great experiences that leave YOU and your lovers feeling satisfied, confident, and glowing with appreciation!

The idea of strap-on play no longer exists as something solely for lesbians and dominatrixes, or for television (Remember the Broad City episode where Abbi is presented with Jeremy’s custom green dildo?!). Pegging (nods to sex columnist Dan Savage for coining the term), and the play surrounding it, can be a sexy, fun and adventurous way for men, women, and folks of all genders to explore new dynamics and sensations in the bedroom. Yet, without a game partner or a certain amount of experience and communication confidence, pegging can be a nerve-wracking adventure all but destined to end badly.

In this 1.5-hour, informative and humorous workshop you’ll get to watch, take notes and ask any and all your questions… You will learn:

Strap-On Basics for All Genders

 

Simple + Advanced techniques for fun and easy bottoming/receiving

 

Ways to bring up the idea of pegging and strap-on play without freaking out your partners!

 

Communication and negotiation skills that will deepen your love life…

 

Safer Sex protocols and hygiene tips

 

Special considerations when working with butts and prostates

 

Easy to… swallow… blowjob and deepthroating techniques for strap-ons!

 

Unique and fun positions perfect for all gendered strap-on sex

 

Some simple fem-dom techniques (nothing too scary, we promise!)

 

And much, much more!

Regardless of your gender, sexual orientation, level of experience, relationship status, or what you’re packing beneath your clothes (or in your sex toy bag), this class will cover how to show yourself and your lovers how to give and receive more pleasure through pegging.

 

Accessibility info: Self Serve's entrance & bathroom are accessible. Please refrain from wearing heavily scented products. Email info@selfservetoys.com if you would like an ASL interpreter and we can try to arrange it.

ABOUT REID MIHALKO: Sex and relationship geek Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com helps adults and college students create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, personal stories, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual health information.

In early 2018, some very brave people came forward during #MeToo sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid’s apology and resources were shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability. Going forward, Reid’s projects and appearances will include pointing people towards resources and experts on restorative and transformative justice-based accountability processes. 

 

Reid teaches internationally, running workshops and speaking on communication skills, alternative relationship styles, and shame-free sexuality. Whether online, on stage, or at a college or university, Reid shares skills and concepts designed to help everyone be the change they want to see in the bedroom.