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Coming of Age Ceremony: Mescalero Apache Maidens- Photographs by Jan Butchofsky

Friday Aug 16, 2019

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220 Shelby St
Santa Fe , NM 87501






Liz Rees

Phone: 505-216-0836
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Photographer Jan Butchofsky, a long-time resident of Southern New Mexico and the homelands of the Mescalero Apache, was an invited guest of the family asked to witness the Coming of Age Ceremony of two maidens during two separate celebrations. She was honored to bear witness with her camera to these sacred and very private preparations and ceremonies. 

Members of the Mescalero Tribe will be in attendance at the opening reception on Wednesday evening.


Wednesday, August 14, 5-7PM


 Daily 10am-6pm


Sunday 12-5pm


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The Mescalero Apache people, descendants of the great warrior Geronimo, have a strong ceremonial tradition to initiate girls into womanhood. Considered one of the most sacred celebrations of the Mescalero, the four-day rite of passage for the maiden reflects the tribe’s way of life involving complete community commitment.  Preparation for the Coming of Age Ceremony begins at least a year in advance with every detail meticulously carried out.  Pollen from water plants is gathered for blessings, teepee poles are cut and canvas is sewn. The maiden’s dress is a very important part of the celebration, often made of deer hides harvested especially for the occasion.  Dancers are arranged, most notably the dancers of the Mountain Gods, and a Medicine Man and Medicine Woman are selected. Cattle are raised and butchered so that elaborate feasts of traditional food can be served to all the guests every day of the ceremony.

The four-day maiden ceremony reflects the four days needed to create the world and the maiden embodies the virtues of the White Painted Woman, who gave the Apache’s their virtues, pleasant aspects of life and longevity. Many rituals and blessings are performed during the celebration, culminating in all-night dance, drumming and singing with the maiden and her attendants in the Ceremonial Teepee.  At dawn, transformed, the maiden runs towards her future and the hopes of her community.