How to Build Your Best Fit Relationship

Sunday Feb 2, 2020

112 Morningside Dr NE
Albuquerque, NM 87108

Phone: 265-5815
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Phone: 505 265 5815
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This casual educational event is designed to help provide the tools to figure out needs, wants and desires and how those play into the best-fit relationship.


Finding the right relationship/s to fit your needs can be a daunting process, especially if you don't know all the different types of relationships available to you. This casual educational event is designed to help give you and/or your partners tools to figure out what your needs, wants and desires are and how those play into your best-fit relationship. You'll also have an opportunity to create your "user's manual" which can give you and your partners ideas of how to most effectively be and thrive in a relationship with you.

Some of the styles of relationships we'll discuss are:


Solo Polyamory

Relationship Anarchy




Partnered non-monogamy

Mono/poly configurations and more


Come learn what these relationship styles are about and which one best fits your needs and desires. We'll also be looking to hear from people who practice these kinds of relationships and what their lived-experiences are. Please feel free to contact Hunter if you have any questions.

Accessibility info: Self Serve's entrance & bathroom are accessible. Please refrain from wearing heavily scented products. Email if you would like an ASL interpreter and we can try to arrange it.

Hunter Riley (she/her) is the director of education and outreach at Self Serve, a sex educator, speaker and general nerd. She helps adults of all genders find their voice and comfort level around conversations about sex and sexuality. After earning degrees in psychology, Spanish and journalism, she moved on to teaching classes in English and Spanish about communication, safer sex, consent, pleasure, sex toys, oral sex, kink, non-monogamy, birth control and more! She has authored several sex columns for newspapers and online media outlets in New Mexico including the Daily Lobo, the Santa Fe Reporter and Albuquerque Free Press. She has partnered with organizations like Planned Parenthood, the University of New Mexico, UNM Hospital, Enlace Comunitario, Santa Fe Care Center and more. She has been involved in local & national BDSM scene as an educator, volunteer and organizer for various organizations including NM:TNG and ABQ KIS ( Find out more about Hunter at