carnal conundrums


V.19 No.48 |

sex

Asexuality and Your Beautiful Business

New Carnal Conundrums

The newest Carnal Conundrums is live at Saucy Southwest! This edition covers what to do when you're not enjoying the sexy company of others and answers the question "Do I need to change just because I don't look like a porn star?"

Curious about something that you can’t ask Dear Abby? Julian Wolf is here for you. Comment at Saucy Southwest or email Julian directly at advice@julianwolf.net. No question is too mundane or alternative.

V.19 No.38 |
BiFlag.com

Celebrate Bisexuality Day

Just when you thought International Talk Like a Pirate Day was on the cutting edge of September's holidays, Celebrate Bisexuality Day is in our midst.

Celebrate Bisexuality Day has been official since 1999. To celebrate, go watch this fun 90s Blur video, support your friends who are out of the closet, educate yourself about the local community, go get a date and please avoid drunkenly making out with members of the same sex just because your significant other thinks it's hot. That's usually less celebratory and more exploitative, unless of course, you explain the situation to the third party in advance. (You can always ask for advice at Carnal Conundrums how to go about that politely.)

Let your Bi Flag fly as this part of our diverse community is celebrated around the world.

V.19 No.35 |

sex

Intimacy Happens

New Carnal Conundrums

In this long awaited newest edition of Carnal Conundrums, Julian clears up a misconception stemming from a polyamorist's in-joke and encourages an advice seeker to play with toys. "Sex Happens" can be found at Saucy Southwest for any adult who wants to know more. Julian Wolf is here for you, ask away!

V.19 No.27 |

Kink and Monogamy?

New Carnal Conundrums

Over at Saucy Southwest your questions are answered. This week Julian covers a quandary involving kinky people and monogamy. Are you curious about something not covered by conventional columns? Ask away, Carnal Conundrums is here for you.

V.19 No.22 |

Sex

Sexy Food and Pride Revisited

New Carnal Conundrums

The newest Carnal Conundrums discusses an age-old question. Are people playing with their food or are they playing with their food? Head over to New Mexico's Alternative Sex-positive Advice column oh ye curious adults, to find out and ask questions of your own! Also, feel free to check out last year's Pride Edition if you're still making your mind about whether or not you should go this weekend. (Short answer is yes, you probably should.) Remember, if you have a question that's a bit on the alternative side, Julian's here for you, just Ask Away.

V.19 No.16 |

Sex

Chicks, Porn & Flirting

New Carnal Conundrums

The newest Carnal Conundrums answers "What the deal" is with women and porn. Check it out at Saucy Southwest.

Also, May 13th, by popular demand, Flock Together will be hosting special guest Sophia Einstein! Join your friendly Lust Birds for a happy hour with the class at the tail end. Sophia will be covering Flirting 101 with a focus on the bar and online scenes! As always, Happy Hour from seven to nine that evening, class in the middle.

As always, do you have a question for New Mexico's Alternative Advice Columnist? Ask Away! You can use the comment form at the column, Your post will remain private. Alternatively, you can also email me directly at advice@julianwolf.net. I look forward to answering your questions.

V.19 No.13 |

Flock Together: Flirting 101

New Carnal Conundrums

The newest Carnal Conundrums discusses vocabulary words such as Pansexuality as well as discusses this month's Flock Together, which is Thursday. Join us for the no cover happy hour from 7pm - 9pm, and stick around for our special guest Hannah who will be teaching Flirting 101 at 8:00pm, for only $5! (Bring cash for the class.)

Curious about coming by? The event is at a fabulous private club near downtown, so you are personally invited- please email lovebird@alibi.com or call (505) 243-8476 for location. Cheap drinks (bring your ID if you're going to be buying alcohol), great company in a fantastic atmosphere.

V.19 No.2 |

More than Medical Advice

New Carnal Conundrums

The newest Carnal Conundrums discusses when it's time to go see a medical professional, how local sex positive sex shops are your friends and the fact that doctors (and other professionals) work for you. Are you an adult? Go check it out and let us know what you think.

V.18 No.52 |

Virgin Territory

New Carnal Conundrums

Just in time for the celebration of at least one virgin birth, the newest Carnal Conundrums is live to answer your questions about where to find people who have mutual interests, be it virginity or what's underneath those holiday socks. Virgin Territory is Live! Carnal Conundrums won't be taking a break this holiday season, feel free to send in questions about alternative New Mexico anytime.

V.18 No.48 |

Some Like It Rough

New Carnal Conundrums

This week's Carnal Conundrums discusses the bummer that is puritanical guilt and the fact that some people enjoy their good times a bit on the rough side. Are you at least eighteen? Go check it out, and take a look at the personals while you're there, there just might be someone who likes it the way you do.

Radio for Night Owls

Community Powered Radio

For those of you who are awake during the wee hours of the morning, you can tune into 89.9FM between 1am and 5am to listen to the Wolfman's show, Overnight Freeform. He's invited me to guest DJ and we'd love to have you listen in and ask questions! We'll be talking about fun and sexy topics and playing a wide variety of music.

If you're not awake at that hour, you can go to KUNM's website and listen in the archives for two weeks. Feel free to email me with questions, or reply here with questions or song requests. We'll also take calls in the studio, 505-277-5615.

I hope that while most of you are getting a good night's rest that those of you who prefer moonlight to sunlight will tune in to our local station for a fun time in the early morning. Maybe this time I won't break any rules!

V.18 No.40 |

On Cougars & Chicken-Hawks

The Newest Carnal Conundrums

Saucy Southwest is featuring the new Carnal Conundrums, in which we discuss ageism and adults having relationships with adults. Eighteen or over? Go check it (lots of other cool things) out at SaucySW.com!