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::Making Grown Men Cry Since 1992
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Aleksandar Kostich is a trial attorney in the Public Defender’s Office. He handles Albuquerque’s felony cases—accused murderers, rapists, drug traffickers. It’s a demanding job. But if he seems exhausted these days, it’s not because of work. Kostich is Serbian-American. His father, Nikola Kostich, also an attorney, emigrated from Serbia in 1958. Neither father nor son has forgotten his roots. Each follows closely what is happening in the war-torn nation, once part of what was Yugoslavia.For Aleks Kostich, 38, the biggest war this week is taking place on the red-dirt courts at the French Open tennis championships. The No. 2 seed there in men’s singles is Novak Djokovic, a tall 24-year-old built like an arrow. Just about everyone with even the slightest interest in tennis knows Rafael Nadal and Roger Federer. But over the last six months, Djokovic has grabbed and kept the spotlight. Sports Illustrated anointed him “the most dominant athlete in the world right now.”That Novak Djokovic is a Serb makes Aleks Kostich one happy fellow.With victories in the first two rounds at the French Open, Djokovic had won 41 matches in a row since Jan. 1. The record in modern tennis is 46 straight victories, set by Argentina’s Guillermo Vilas, in 1977. If you go back to December and count Davis Cup play, Djokovic has won 43 consecutive matches. Along the way, he has whipped the daunting Nadal four times in a row and the esteemed Federer the last three times they have met. Want more? Djokovic has lost only nine sets since November. His next match happens Friday, June 3, in the semifinals in Paris, where he’ll play Federer.Based on computer points, Nadal remains No. 1 in the world. That may well change when the French Open—one of tennis’ four Grand Slam tournaments—finishes up on Sunday.“It wouldn’t break my heart if Djokovic lost,” says Kostich, “because I know the streak will have to end at some point. But to be honest, I’ll be surprised.” While the Bombs Dropped … Serbia, about the size of Virginia, is a landlocked republic of 7 million people. Until the past few years, Serbia’s major sports were soccer, basketball and water polo. Tennis is popular there, but only lately has the country turned out so many good male and female players. Nenad Zimonjic has won seven Grand Slam doubles titles and earned a No. 1 ranking in men’s doubles. Both Ana Ivanovic and Jelena Jankovic have been ranked No. 1 in women’s singles. Meanwhile the United States, with more than 300 million people, does not have a female singles player ranked in the top 10 in the world. The last time an American man won a Grand Slam tournament was 2003.Kostich grew up “a McEnroe nut” in a suburb of Milwaukee. He was, he says, a “scrappy baseliner” who played junior tournaments. During summer vacations he often visited Serbia, where his father still has relatives. He even played tennis there once, at a small club in Belgrade, the capital city. “Serbia is special for me,” Kostich says. “It’s my dad’s native country, but in my travels there, I grew to love the place and the people. It brings me a sense of enormous pride. I really have come to appreciate my Serbian heritage.”On occasion he grills little ground-beef-and-garlic sausages known in Serbia as cevapcici . And of course he follows Serbia’s sports fortunes. The country has also produced Nemanja Vidic, a fine defender for England’s acclaimed Manchester United soccer team. Not surprisingly, Kostich is a big Man U rooter. In high school, Kostich grew interested in running. He was recruited to compete at middle distances for the University of New Mexico. He did that for two years until he became disillusioned with UNM’s track program, which in the 1990s was less than mediocre. In time Kostich got married, went to law school back in Wisconsin, practiced law there for a spell, returned to Albuquerque, started a family and played tennis recreationally. Meanwhile Serbia and a portion of the Balkans were going through upheaval. At the end of World War II, Yugoslavia’s iron-fisted dictator, Josip Tito, worked to unify the surrounding countries. Forty-odd years later, that plan crumbled. Bloody border disputes reigned as a civil war erupted. Serbia’s new leader, Slobodan Milosevic, was accused of ethnic cleansing and assorted war crimes. He died in prison in 2006 while awaiting trial. Coincidentally, Ratko Mladic, a former Bosnian Serb general accused of masterminding the massacre of Srebrenica in 1995, was captured on Thursday, May 26, near Belgrade. Mladic, in hiding for 15 years, was considered one of the world’s most-wanted fugitives. Serbia’s failure to find him reportedly was the key stumbling block for that nation’s entrance into the European Union.Everyone suffered in the civil war—Serbia, Croatia, Bosnia, Slovenia, Herzegovina and Kosovo. Things got so bad that in 1999 NATO forces dropped cluster bombs on Serbia and the area around it to quell the unrest. The bombings went on for 78 days. Kostich, who was then living in Milwaukee, joined other members of the Serbian diaspora to publicly protest the bombings. “I felt the bombing was illegal.”The idea of trying to practice a sport when explosions are happening all around you seems unimaginable. Yet that’s what Novak Djokovic, Ana Ivanovic, Nemanja Vidic and others in Serbia did. “People’s lives were wrecked,” says Kostich. “Their minds were scarred. Those experiences, I think, made Serbians like Djokovic who they are. It was a very tough time back there, economically and every other way. The adversity Serbians faced gave people a great resolve and made them tougher.”